I'm a gay kid... thats always had straight friends. Closeted in high school. Popular. Knew a lot of people and if I didn't know them personally I knew of them. Small town. Community leader and friend to many unlike me. Basically you could say, people beocme comfortable around me rather quickly. I have some querky ability to connect with people regardless of how much or little we have in common. Pair that innate ability with a behavioral psych degree... and well... shit gets interesting.
Since I can remember thinking about sex... its never beenvery traditional - usually involving obscure settings, multiple people, random sexes and sexual orientations and pretty much anything else creatively my mind can come up with. This "whatever... sounds fun... lets do it" mindset has been fun to explore as an adult... its gotten me into (and out of) a lot of trouble. This blog is about the fun conversations and experiences I've had along the way - all unexpected, but none that surprising in the end. Whats written here will likely be a prelude to a book I'll eventually write that will join the ranks of the thousands of others on seedy bookshelves somewhere about sexual conquests and deviant marriage destroying con artists.
This all started when I got the words "come out to me" tattooed on my forehead in high school, and was dubbed the "kid who was chill to talk to about anything." Thanks for the title class of 2004, but when did we vote on this - I must have been at a school board meeting convincing them to let 1000 hypersexed high schoolers to have a sleepover in the school. .....ah, memories.